I see what you mean - something that would get through to them to become humble. I want to mention that this can apply to women too who are violent and to parents violent with children, physically and emotionally which can come up later as post traumatic stress. What was also sad was, through this article, I looked up a resource for abuse in India on the Internet and they've received on a hotline 50% more calls about sexual abuse of children in recent times. (I forget the time intervals). Thanks so much for caring about this as a man and for your conviction about the behavors! Good for your mom for saying fecker. Thanks so much, also, for your so encouraging words, James!