Jenn Lane, my eyes are moist reading your post about your father, and how an apology with some mental health help and actionable changes in behavior that made you (I added breathe easier) and feel safe would mean "so much to my heart." I appreciate your sharing so vulnerably and honestly, and your kind comment. I do wish your father might make those changes. I did see an article online about how the adult child can feel as much pain as the parent in this situation. You brought to mind the aspect of seeing behavior changes and mental health. Thanks. Loving greetings to you, dear Jenny.